What is the worlds problem with concieted ppl?

I know I am openly concieted and I dont feel its a bad thing. I brag about myself and dont believe in being humble bc I feel its phoney 2 act humble if you honestly think the world of yourself. So many ppl I know just dont get it. I am a very nice person and dont put ppl down, infact I am the nicest most accepting person I know. I am not arrogent, I dont feel others r lower than me just that I'm better than most ppl I meet. I believe that there must b someone out there better than me bc no person is perfect. Honestly I am usually looking for someone to challenge me, and though it does happen, usually ppl just try to prove me wrong rather than try to show me how great they are. I believe every person in the world should feel awesome about themselfs, and if they dont that should be the exception. Does anyone else agree? I cant c y everyone doesn't love me as much as I love me and y they cant just love themselfs....

What is the worlds problem with concieted ppl?
honestly i see a lot of similarities between you and me, i see some differences too. i can also see where it's very easy to take what your saying as you sounding like a stuck up b*tch but i understand where you're coming from. and i say as long as you feel good about yourself and you're not putting others down to feel good about yourself then there is nothing wrong with that. i also think religion is good and it's good for people but i am not religious myself. the main difference i see between you and me is sometimes i wish i wasn't as good at a lot of the stuff that i am because i think it is unfair. i am smarter then most people without trying to be and i am stronger than most people without trying i am very naturally athletic, and have been able to succeed at almost every sport that i have tried and things just come naturally. i do have to work for some things and i will work very hard for some things but i think it is unfair that i naturally and easily get what so many people have to work so hard for. i have an older brother who was one of the strongest and most athletic people i know but it was only because he worked harder for it than any one i know and now i am even stronger and more athletic than he is and i have not worked half as hard as him, I'm not exactly sure how to feel about it I'm a little confused but I'm only 15 so i figure I'll be able to work it all out eventually.


i hope you keep feeling good about yourself though and i hope you will keep succeeding and excelling in whatever you try.
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Reply:There's nothing wrong with having a lot of self confidence but when you say "I don't feel others are lower than me just that I'm better than most people"....isn't that a contradiction in terms? No one likes conceit because those who are conceited do not accept people for who they are. They usually require their friends to continually prove their worth.
Reply:Why would you want to brag about yourself? Why don't you let others find out what they like most about you? You seem young and a little too over confident. You should also work on your spelling and grammar, I'm hope you don't brag too much about that.
Reply:This is a stupid question.


What is your problem with normal, good-hearted people?





Conceited-having an excessively favorable opinion of one's abilities, appearance, etc.








No one likes a bitc*,kid.
Reply:You sound like an air head to me... if you were really so confident you would be humble about being a fantastic person. Usually the ones who shout they are fabulous from the roof tops are the most insecure and un fabulous ones out there.
Reply:Oh Jesus. Get a grip, kid. You're a nobody, just like the rest of us. I'm willing to bet that you actually have an extremely LOW self-esteem.





The world's problem with conceited people is that they're conceited.
Reply:I just don't care much for people who never think about anyone besides themselves, I think the world could do with far fewer of them alive.





It's really no wonder that you have no friends.
Reply:I agree 100% with everyone listed above. They have accurately commented on EVERYTHING you have said so completely that there is nothing left to add.
Reply:People dont want to be around people who have their nose in the air...Like yourself. You say youre not arrogant, yet you say youre better than most people you meet. Thats arrogant. People dont like people like you because no one wants to hear others brag about themselves when there is nothing really there to brag about. And on a daily basis no less, its annoying,boring and just plain rediculous. You sound like a teen, so here it is. Get over yourself now, before you hit the real world. People out here dont give a dam* about how much you like yourself, because chances are they dont like you that much if at all.
Reply:Got to agree with the first guy, feeling good about yourself is all well and good but it does have to be justified.....and in your case it doesn't look like it is.





You don't seem very nice at all and you do seem arrogant so those two statements are flawed to start with.





People challenging you as you claim to be looking for is them trying to prove you wrong, them trying to show they are better than you is not challenging you....it's promoting themselves.


That's an entirely different thing that you don't appear to have grasped.





If you think you are better than most people then you really need to get out and meet more people.





Maybe the answer to your question is that the world has a problem with conceited people because they talk such utter rubbish that is so easily proved wrong.
Reply:I'm not sure what you have to brag about, since you can't compose a proper English sentence and you're not even smart enough to use the spell checker built into Y Answers. (I DID run spell check on your question and it contains 22 spelling errors. If you're going to BE conceited, you might want to learn to spell it, dear.)





If it's your looks you're so stuck up about, they fade. So enjoy 'em while you have 'em, because it doesn't look like you have very much to fall back on.





To answer your question, though, if everyone loved themselves as much as you do, the world would be one giant pissing match of people one-upping each other.





You seriously believe you are the only one who questions anything? Girl, you are living in a dreamworld.





In regards to charity and helping others, the Bible says that "the left hand should not know what the right hand is doing." It admonishes us from making any display WHATSOEVER of good deeds. (I'm an atheist and even I see the value of those scriptures.) Doing good is a reward in itself and does not require acknowledgment from others. Do you help others out of a desire for praise and recognition, or for the joy of doing good? Actually, I don't know why I used a question mark there, because I think the answer is too obvious to actually require an answer...





For someone who spends so much time thinking of herself, you sure could use some self-examination.
Reply:There is nothing wrong with having good self esteem but you need to bring yourself down a level you aren't all that even though you think you are. I am sure I could find people that know you personally and they might say it to your face but I doubt they fell the same way about you that you do especially given the opportunity to express their feelings behind your back. I think I am a great person but I don't have the need to let everyone know that, I just know it and don't have the "need" to brag. Bragging is for little kids, once they grow up they realize it is childish....
Reply:There's nothing wrong with loving yourself, but it's when you become obsessed that people start to get nauseated. "A person in love with themselves will have no rivals."-Benjamin Franklin. Meaning, if you care more about yourself than about others no one is going to want to be around you.(Uh, duh.) And newsflash, thinking your better than other or "most" people is being ARROGANT. And humble people, truly humble people, don't even think of themselves that way. And there aren't many truly humble people out there. Just think of this: No one wants to be #2. No one! So as long as you continue worshiping yourself no one is going to give you a second thought.





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You are either doing this just to get a reaction or trying to justify a feeling you know is not right.
Reply:There's nothing wrong with being in love with yourself but you have to draw the line when you feel people are beneath you....you contradicted yourself when you said that "I dont feel others r lower than me just that I'm better than most ppl I meet". Being better than someone how? Because you believe you're pretty? That doesn't mean anything. I have a lot of confidence in myself but i never have to put someone down to feel good about myself or feel that i'm better than everyone. I love my self to the thousandth degree, I love being in the mirror, i love everything about me but thats just me. I don't need to stand next to someone ugly to feel good and i don't need to challenge people to be better than me because that is just coming off as arrogant no matter how much you want to say that it is not.
Reply:No one in their right mind would put you in Management with your spelling, unless they are trying to **** you. I'm not trying to sound tough or bitchy, but I would put you in your place. You sound like my co-worker, she avoids me now, cause she knows I will tell her to just shut the **** up. You aren't the greatest thing since sliced bread like you think you are.......and you can't see why people don't like you???? wow
Reply:Reading this question made me vomit in my mouth a little. I personally don't like conceited people because they have trouble owning up to their mistakes. They think they can do no wrong. I'm sure you are really "good at grammer" and the errors are the keyboard's fault, not your own. Grow up, please. You are giving our generation a bad name.
Reply:The more you think about yourself the less you think about others. What set you off? To be conceited you have to have some overwhelming quality that sets you above everyone else. You don't. Final answer.