Do people ever think that you are stuck up?

Have you ever noticed that if you are relatively quiet and stay to your self most of the time (with the exception of close friends) that other people automatically dub you as being a ********* or being stuck up. I know alot of people say that no matter what you do you can never please everyone, but I just wish that I didn't have problems with other females giving me go to h e l l looks all the time.





I always have the problem of never having a lot of femalle friends bc they always have this subconsiciou thing where they are always in competition with me, which is so damn aggravating. I even had a classmate get pissed at me bc I didn't say hi to her at college while I was passing by, but in highschool we never even chatted with each other. It's kind of like they think that I am obligated to say hi to them and get all pissed when I don't.

Do people ever think that you are stuck up?
First of all-how old are you? You sound like my daughter-and don't judge me for my age! I'm 45. I've learned (the hard way) the people that judge the most (harshest) are usually judging themselves and are not too terribly happy what they see in the "mirror". I don't have alot of female friends not too many male either. BUT the true definition of "friend" is something only you can figure out, not the one in the dictionary. I have alot of "acquaintances"but the ones that are TRUE friends are the ones here through thick and thin. There is no need to be liked by everyone you know. As long as you know and like yourself your friends will let themselves be known. I doubt this helps but I hope it does. My guess is you're between 13 %26amp; 21.
Reply:You shouldn't let those girls get to you. You are in college now and have better things to worry about. I think you should enjoy your college years and keep in touch with your close friends, because it is very easy to lose track of them with the hectic school schedule. Maybe you will outgrow your shyness. It is good to have confidence and go up to people and start a conversation. Just be yourself. Good luck!
Reply:yes, I know that feeling all too well. People have mistaken me for being stuck up because I can be relatively quiet around new people. People sometimes have to realize that it takes some people longer to warm up to certain situations. If I'm quiet, it doesn't mean I think I'm better than you but instead I may be trying to relate to the environment and the people around me so I can eventually join a conversation. Most of the time, its best to not really care what people think because I know who I am inside and noone elses opinion should matter but my own and you should think the same.