This is really long, but I need help, I'm so confused?

I met J. the first day of the college semester and we became instant friends. We found out that we are alot alike, with the exception of a few things. We hang out almost every day and the days we don't hang out, we talk on the phone.





One day in another class a mutual friend of ours. H., told me that J. told her that he liked me and wanted to date me. H. had then asked me if I liked J. and I told her that I did.





A week later while hanging out with J. my friend C. had called me and asked what I was up to. I told C. that I was hanging out with J. and he said he would leave me to my date. J. saw this and asked me if I thought that was a date. I told him that I didn't. He then asked if I wanted it to be a date and I told him I didn't care. He then asked me if I liked him and I said that I did. He then told me how two of his friends, who I have met and got along with, kept bugging him to ask me out but he was too indecisive. He then got up and sat really close to me. We flirted off

This is really long, but I need help, I'm so confused?
Ok, I clearly don't know the situation as well as you do, but I'd say you have nothing to worry about. I think he does like you a lot, and it can become something more if you want it to. He has a son and you've never had a boyfreind, so I'd say he just doesn't want you to move faster than you're comfortable with. So, go for it if you want to, from what I've read you two sound like you will be happy together.





Like I say, this is just my opinion and you know the guy better than I do, so you sholud do what you think is best.
Reply:Sounds like he likes you. He's giving you smoke signals. Maybe you should just ask him how he is feeling. It sounds like you two are really compatible.
Reply:Are you kidding me? If you like this boy, and you KNOW he likes you back since he's said so to friends and even you, just make a move. He might be too shy to. Next time he gets close like you've said he does, kiss him. Take the initiative and you'll be a lot happier for it. If you don't, I PROMISE you that you'll always regret it and wonder what could have been.
Reply:Ask to your heart and you will get the answer
Reply:He likes you but he also values your friendship. You should just ask him out on a real date date. And then eventually after a year or so consider moving in with him. To me it sounds like you two really get along, and might make a good pair. Keep working on things, there really is no need to rush things after all. Go at whatever pace you are comfortable with, and do the things that both of you are sure of doing.